Although we all know that it’s vital to pray about everything in our life, it’s especially crucial to pray for your future spouse and your marriage. Who you marry is the second largest decision you’ll ever make after deciding to follow Jesus because God loves marriage—he created it, after all.
I would start by discussing the desires you already have in your heart as you begin to pray for your future husband. Do you wish to marry someone? Do you have feelings for a particular guy you know or do you like them? How do you currently feel about being single? Are you concerned that God has abandoned you and wondering if you will ever be married?
It is effective to express your feelings, emotions, and anxieties to God in prayer. Although he already knows how you are feeling, when you express your needs and ideas to him in prayer, you are able to sense his calm and are better prepared to pray with greater confidence.
Pray about certain issues that God lays on your heart as you consider asking God to help you find your future husband. The sample prayers for your future husband provided below can serve as a guide, but it’s crucial to focus your prayers on the particular goals and concerns that God has placed on your heart.
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Ways to Pray for Your Future Husband
Here are some ways you might begin praying for your future husband to get you started.
- Every morning, during your usual time of prayer, ask God to send you your future husband.
- Every day when you’re driving to work or doing anything around the house, pray for your future husband. For instance, while you’re brushing your teeth or doing the laundry, say a prayer for your good husband.
- Thank God every night before you go to sleep for bringing you a godly husband who will one day be able to sleep next to you.
- Create a prayer notebook and record your daily or weekly prayers for your future husband as guided.
- Together with your single pals, say a prayer for your future husband. Pray for various locations or themes as you go around the table.
What the Bible Says About Praying for a Husband
Scripture prayers for your husband are quite effective. I’ve heard several women’s testimonials indicating that the time they spent praying for their husbands was incredibly beneficial. God works in marvelous ways, even when we can’t always see them.
Here are some verses to invoke in your prayers for your future husband:
- and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” (NIV)
- Colossians 3:5 – “Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires, and greed, which is idolatry.” (NIV).
- Philippians 4:6-7 – “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (NIV).
- Matthew 6:33 – “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” (NIV).
- 1 Corinthians 10:13 – “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.” (NIV).
Can You Pray for a Specific Person to Become Your Husband?
I would definitely advise that you pray and ask God to confirm your desires if you like someone or have feelings for someone in particular. Pray and ask God for clarity on your heart’s desires and for confirmation that he is the one, rather than praying and asking for this guy to become your husband.
Pray and ask God to confirm your aspirations so that if this man is to be your future husband, God will confirm it and he will be aware that you are his future wife. You should pray and ask God to only give you desires for your future husband, and if this guy is not the one, you should pray and ask God to remove those desires.
Prayers for My Future Husband
It’s effective to pray for your future husband. You give God power over your future husband’s life when you pray for him. He might really benefit from it! For example, it might encourage him to become closer to Christ.
Prayer for Faith to Believe in God’s Goodness
I beg you, God, to give me the conviction that the man you have for me is a good one. Jehovah Thank you Rapha for helping me get over the hurt from previous relationships and preparing me for the right one. I’m grateful to you, Lord, for making me appear immaculate and gorgeous to you. I acknowledge that my gentle nature and distinctive appearance will appeal to my husband. Lord, help me to overcome my insecurities and my need for a man to make me feel attractive and loved. Thank you, God, for making it easier for me to wait for the best. Thank you, God, for enabling me to wait patiently for a guy who heeds your voice. I have faith in you to guide me to my true love. And I have faith that you won’t withhold anything nice from me. I am thrilled since I shall be married in your time. It’ll do you proud. And I’ll bring up my family to love you, Lord. Amen.
Prayer for A Future Husband
Thank you, Lord, for igniting my enthusiasm for my Godly mate. I am grateful that you have excellent things in store for me and can see the big picture. I beg you to take away all the anguish, fear, and unhealed areas from my heart. Father, give me the security and wholeness I need in you so I may stop looking to my husband for love, life, and happiness. God, you complete me. You complete me. I’m grateful to God for his unconditional love for me. I pray that my husband will also feel the breadth and depth of your love.
I pray that we will both recognize your love so clearly that we will be able to tell when someone is only pretending to care about us. I pray that we won’t feel a strong emotional pull toward people who are not right for us. We appreciate you giving us the courage and assurance to heed your caution that someone is not our husband. Protect us against fakes, unhealthy relationships, and partners that want to do us damage. I pray for insight and revelation so we can understand their true intentions.
Father, I place my heart in your hands and trust you to direct my dating life. We appreciate your assistance in identifying our personalities, preferences, strong points, and flaws. We complement one another, thus I think you’ll lead us both to each other.
Father, thank you for empowering us bravely at this time of singledom. You’re instructing us on how to love our bodies and fulfill our calling. Help us both to start living out our divine mission. Help us to discern your instructions so that we might walk in the gospel’s power. I want to serve as a living example of God’s love. I also hope that my future union would glorify you and advance God’s kingdom. I’m grateful that you taught my husband and me about loving people and the Bible. I’m thrilled to be in a partnership that you, God, have planned for me! You have my trust, Father. Amen.
Prayer for My Future Husband to Find Me
Father, I’m grateful that you created me in your likeness. I appreciate you keeping my heart safe while you find me the right man. My husband’s eyes are blocked, and he won’t be pursuing the wrong woman. direct his attention and path to me. Help us to overcome our impatience and keep us from settling. Lord, you protect me, and I put my faith in you to guide me to my soul mate. God, make me clear to my husband. Please make the hidden and unknown portions of me visible to him. Tell him about my qualities that would make me a valuable helper to him. Lord, keep my heart and assist me to only allow love to awaken when it is time. I’m grateful that he will find and recognize me. God, you keep your promises, and you never disgrace the just. This makes me happy. You have my trust, Abba. Amen.
Prayer for My Future Husband to Find Me
Father, I’m grateful that you created me in your likeness. I appreciate you keeping my heart safe while you find me the right man. My husband’s eyes are blocked, and he won’t be pursuing the wrong women. direct his attention and path to me. Help us to overcome our impatience and keep us from settling. Lord, you protect me, and I put my faith in you to guide me to my soul mate.
God, make me clear to my husband. Please make the hidden and unknown portions of me visible to him. Tell him about my qualities that would make me a valuable helper to him. Lord, keep my heart and assist me to only allow love to awaken when it is time. I’m grateful that he will find and recognize me. God, you keep your promises, and you never disgrace the just. This makes me happy. You have my trust, Abba. Amen!
Prayer to Become Healed Before Marriage
Father, check my heart for any rifts, suffering, or impurity. Purge me of all that prevents love, including pride, ego, fear, fury, and selfishness. Before my husband arrives, please help me to be a courageous and godly lady. I beg you, O Lord, to help me to love you more than a man. I appreciate you opening my eyes so I won’t settle for a man who doesn’t care about you. For a godly man who obeys God’s word, I pray for the courage to maintain my devout faith. God, I appreciate your power. We are grateful to God for healing us. Amen! I adore you!
Three Things to Consider When Praying for Your Future Husband
1. Pray in a way that is meaningful to you
There isn’t a set way to pray for your future partner. It’s crucial to discover a prayer strategy that works for you because your prayers are between you and God. Go ahead if you want to record your prayers in a prayer notebook.
Find a time or pattern that works for you if you want to designate a time of day to pray for your future spouse and marriage every day. Set aside time each week to purposefully pray for your future husband if you want accountability and want to pray for him with your friends.
Don’t push yourself to pray for your future husband if it hurts too much or if it makes you feel worse about being single after praying. Ask God to show you how often and in what amount to pray for your future husband. God will put it on your heart to ask for prayer for your future husband and your upcoming union.
2. Don’t become obsessed with praying for your future husband
It’s crucial to avoid making prayer for your future marriage or your desire for your future husband an idol, even though God instructs us to come to him in prayer for the desires of our hearts. The Bible commands us to worship only the one true God, and when we place our attention on anybody or anything else, it becomes an idol, which is disobedient to God and unhealthy.
It’s best to give it to God and take a break if you notice that you are beginning to become obsessed with thinking about your future husband or praying for your godly husband. God wants to fulfill your heart’s desires, but he also wants you to value him above everyone and everything in this world.
And when you’re prepared to accept him, he wants to bless you by giving you a good husband. You are actually not prepared to meet your future husband if you start to worry, obsess, or feel frantic to do so.
Not sure if you are thinking too much about your future husband or if you are praying for him? Ask God to reveal to you whether you are beginning to obsess over your future spouse in prayer, and ask a close friend or mentor if they believe you should turn your attention to God instead.
3. Constantly surrender your desires to God
It’s challenging to give up your goals, aspirations, and expectations for your future husband. But make sure you keep giving God your own aspirations while you pray for your godly husband and over particular aspects of his life.
Ask God to grant you his wishes for your future husband in prayer. While we may occasionally believe we know what we desire, God actually understands what we need. And only God is aware of your future husband’s identity.